Romance Reader Conventions, Book Fairs and Author Signing 2016

Romance Reader Events 2016

Remember, back when you were young and in elementary school, waiting for that wonderful time of the year to roll around? That time of the year where a mobile store filled with all your favorite things sets up shop at your school…

Book Fair Week!

The time of year where you saved all your extra lunch & chore money just so you could go hog wild and buy as many books as possible. Wait, maybe that was just me.

Book Fair week was as equal to Christmas in my mind and it’s no different now that I’m an adult. Except now I can go to as many book fairs as I want!

Here is a list of all the Romance book conventions, fairs and author signings I could find for 2016. Everything listed is located in the USA and organized by state then by date. There are a few events that are not only for romance readers (some are for readers, writers and authors and some events are not romance specific). Please click on the name of each event to find what’s in store.

∗ Some events that are for both writers and readers will only have specific activities set aside for readers on certain dates so please check on each event page to learn the details.





























New Hampshire

New Jersey

New Mexico

New York

North Carolina

North Dakota





Rhode Island

South Carolina

South Dakota







Washington D.C.

West Virginia



For a more detailed list with reader and writer events outside of the states and future dates check out:

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Friday 9am “2016 Plus Size Body Positive Events”

Monday 9am “What are Character Aesthetic Boards?”

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  • Did you have book fairs at school? If so did they excite you as much as they did me?
  • Have you attended a book fair or reader event as an adult? If so which one and did you like it?
  • Do you know of any reader events happening in 2016 that I haven’t listed? If so, leave the information for it in the comments below. 
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Romance Contest, Conferences, Conventions & Workshops 2016

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As an unpublished writer one of the best things you could ever do for your manuscript is to run it through a few contests before pitching it to literary agents and publisher.


Because, depending on how far your MS goes it will have been seen by a professional’s eyes and hopefully given feedback if it wasn’t good enough.

It is better to know now, if that novel isn’t quite ready before you send it to your dream agent or publisher.

If by chance you win, well that’s even better!

Some contests have publication as part of the prize but even if it doesn’t your novel will be seen by someone who is looking for that exact story.

Some other pluses for doing writing contests are:

  • Getting over that hurdle of letting other people read your work
  • Practicing following guidelines and submitting
  • Prizes!
  • Your book reaching readers you might not have reached on your own
  • Learning how to handle the fear of waiting
  • Learning how to handle rejection
  • Bragging rights if you win

Ok, so what about conference, conventions and workshops?

Have you ever been in a room of like-minded individuals where you are all working toward a similar goal?

Imagine being surrounded by people who love to write just like you, who are working on their writing and want to take it serious.

There is nothing better to boost inspiration, to learn new techniques and to create lasting connections then by attending a writing conference, convention or workshop.

Listed below will be all the Romance related contests for unpublished works, conferences, conventions and workshops I could find for 2016. I’ve included the name of the event and the date. Click on each name to learn more about it.

Anything involving the RWA (Romance Writers of America) and their chapters are open to non-members. 

If you are interested in contests and conferences that are not for the Romance genre check out the following:









Conferences & Workshops









Online Workshops




Stay Tuned

Wednesday @ 9am “2016 Romance Reader Events”

Friday9am “@2016 Plus Size Body Positive Events”

  • Do you know of a contest, conference, convention or workshop coming in 2016 that is not listed? If so leave the name, link and deadline date in the comment Let's Chat Graphicsection below.
  • Do you have experiences with contests, conferences, conventions and workshops? If so would you share it with us?
  • What is your opinion? Do you think contests, conferences, conventions and workshops are worth the time and money?


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Depression & The People That Love You


Depression & The People That Love You

Depression is real and it is not something to joke about.

You can’t turn it off just because you want to or because someone insists you have nothing to be depressed about.

Depression never goes away BUT with the help of therapy, friends and family it IS something you learn to live and deal with.

Many people suffer from depression but refuse to acknowledge it for multiple reasons.

  • They are scared of what people might think.
  • They are ashamed that they don’t have better control over their emotions.
  • They don’t trust someone enough to talk about their inner most feelings.
  • They don’t feel they have enough spare time in a day to really pay attention to their mental health.
  • They are in complete denial about what is happening to themselves.

Having the blahs and feeling down about yourself or your situation is not depression.

Depression is when feelings of sadness drown out everything else around you. You can barely work, sleep, or function anymore, if at all. You don’t just feel sad, you feel worthless, like life for everyone around you would be better if you just didn’t exist.

If you think you might be suffering from depression but aren’t sure check out Mental Health America’s Depression Screening questionnaire.

If you know you are suffering from depression and are not ready to seek help from a therapist or counselor here are some things you can try until you are ready (This helpful list can be found on

  • Give yourself realistic goals that you can achieve every day and then reward/acknowledge yourself each time you reach one. Don’t underestimate the positive affect achieving a goal (of any size) will have on you.
  • If your daily life seems too much right now, break your daily responsibilities into smaller tasks and prioritize them from most important to least important. That way, if you can’t finish everything you needed to do that day you at least took care of the most important things.
  • Try to be social. I know it’s the last thing you’ll want to do but it goes a long way in keeping your depression from swallowing you hole. Just texting someone, chatting on a forum or even playing a video game that allows you to connect with other people online can be a form of socializing.
  • Think back to before you suffered with depression. What sort of activities did you enjoy doing? Try doing those now and see if it helps to lift the fog of depression even just a little bit.
  • Get some exercise. You don’t have to go to the gym or do a workout routine at home if you don’t want to. Exercise can consist of anything that keeps your body moving like walking, swimming, dancing or even cleaning.
  • Don’t expect miracles. If you are actively working on keeping your depression at bay, don’t expect to feel better right away. It will come little by little.
  •  DO NOT MAKE IMPORTANT LIFE ALTERING DECISIONS. While in the throws of a deep depression you aren’t thinking clearly. You might think you are, but you aren’t. If you need to make an important life altering decision, confide in someone first. Let them know what is going on with you and also what it is you need to decide. Tell them what you think you should do and ask their opinion.
  • On that note, if you still aren’t ready to talk to a therapist or counselor about your depression find a friend or loved to confide in. Talking about the things that are weighing you down will help ease the burden a bit.

If you don’t have friends and family who you think will be understanding and supportive you can connect with people online in support forums like: Online Support Community

The Depression Forums

If you are ready for more one on one help but aren’t ready to see someone face to face or don’t have the free time to schedule and then attend a therapy appointment don’t worry. There are online options you can check out, like:

Crisis Text Line – Text their trained crisis counselors about anything that’s on your mind. Its free, 24/7 and confidential.

7 Cups of Tea – A free, anonymous and confidential online text chat with trained listeners, online therapists and counselors. Here is a link to their Free App for Android & iTunes

TalkSpace – A website that offers online therapy with access to over 300 licensed therapists. It isn’t free but the assessment used to match you to the right therapist is. If you choose to use them you have options on how to pay (I don’t know how much they cost or what those options are) and once that is figured out you will have access to your therapist whenever you need him or her. You can talk to them through the computer, cell phone or tablet. No appointments needed and no limit to how many times you need their help. Here is a link to their Free App for Android & iTunes

Even though you have options nothing beats being face to face with a trained and certified therapist or counselor. If you are ready to find one do the following:

  • If you have medical insurance, first call your insurance provider to see if they cover therapy. If they do, ask them for a list of therapists near you. Some insurances require a referral from your primary care doctor in order for them to cover some or all of the costs. Check to see if your insurance has that requirement before picking a therapist.
  • If you don’t have insurance or your insurance does not cover therapy you can look on PsychCentral’s Find Help page for facilities near you.
  • If you can’t afford traditional therapy but you still need one on one counseling contact your local churches or community center and ask them to point you in the right direction.

What do you do if you aren’t depressed but you know and love someone who is?

  • Help them get diagnosed and treated for depression.
    • If they need convincing help them see why they need to seek treatment.
    • Accompany them to their appointment for moral support.
    • Check to see if they are keeping up with their medicine.
    • Encourage them to stick with their treatment or seek a new kind of treatment if it isn’t working.
  • Be There. Offer emotional support.
    • Ask them how their day was or how they are feeling.
    • Really listen and try not to interrupt with advice or comments.
    • Let them know that no matter how bad they feel you will always be there for them and that you love them.
    • Help them see that depression is hard to live with but that you will always be there to help them through it no matter what.
  • Help the person be active.
    • When a person is depressed the idea of interacting with people and the world in general is hard. Come up with things your loved one likes to do and convince them to come with you.
      • Going out to eat
      • Checking out Museums/historical sites
      • Going to the movies
      • Doing an outdoor activity
    • If you are unable to convince them to go out or to do something active don’t berate them or make them feel bad. Just let them know you understand, you’re not mad and that you will try again another day.
  • Try small gestures like:
    • Sending them a card with a personal message
    • Sending them a text that is either funny or touching
    • Cooking them their favorite meal or have it delivered
    • Leaving a caring voicemail for them to play back when they need to hear words of encouragement
  • Don’t judge or criticize.
    • You are going to loose your patience. You are going to get mad, frustrated and hurt. Loving someone who is suffering from depression is not easy. Just try to remember that yelling at them, getting frustrated or criticizing how they are handling their depression will do nothing but harm you both emotionally and potentially derail the entire treatment. One really bad day for someone who is depressed could potentially be the last day of their lives. Please remember that your words (whether you meant it or not) have a powerful impact.
  • Avoid saying:
    • “Don’t be so negative. Look at things as half full, not half empty”
    • “It’s all just in your head”
    • “Just get up and do something. You’re wasting your life away.”
  • Don’t ever attempt the tough-love approach.
    • By going this route you are just going to add shame to a person who already feels isolated and worthless. People don’t choose to be depressed. You can’t guilt someone out of it.
  • Avoid giving advice. Instead, try these helpful phrases:
    • “What can I do to help you feel better?” and if they don’t have the answer don’t get frustrated. Just accept that there isn’t anything you can do but be there for them.
  • Avoid making comparisons.
    • Even if you, yourself have suffered from depression try not to compare your experience to theirs. Everyone suffers with depression in their own way. What worked for you might not work for someone else.
  • Learn as much as you can about depression.
    • Knowing as much as you can about depression will help you be more understanding about what your loved one is going through.
  • Be patient.
    • When you are patient you are letting them know that it doesn’t matter how long this is going to take, or how involved the treatments are going to be, or the difficulties that accompany the passage from symptom onset to recovery, because you will be there.
    • Know that even though your loved one might smile, laugh, or seem to have a good day that doesn’t mean they are cured.
    • Depression ebbs and flows but it will always be there in the background.

Just as people who suffer from depression benefit from counseling and support so do the people who love and live with them.

Depression doesn’t affect just one person. It also affects everyone that person loves. It’s hard seeing someone you care for suffer whether physically or emotionally and it’s even harder to not take their bad moods and negative thoughts personally.

There is help for us loved ones as well. Check out:

Looking for ways to manage your depression on the go? Try the following apps:

MoodTools – Depression Aid Free for Android & iTunes

Depression CBT Self-Help Guide Free for Android

The CBT App Free for iTunes

What’s Up? Free for Android

Pacifica Free for iTunes

Diary –  Mood Tracker Free for Android

Moodtrack Diary Free for iTunes

*Disclaimer* I am not a doctor or a licensed therapist or certified counselor. I am, however, the daughter of a mother and the wife of man who has suffered from depression for most of their lives. Every suggestion I have listed has come from the heart. My hope is that this article will help those not yet getting treatment to seek help and for their loved ones to never give up on them.

Whether you are a suffer of depression or love someone who is, you are not alone. There is help and support for you.

depression is an illness by Darla Denton

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Monday @ 9am “2016 Competitions, Conferences & Conventions for Writers”

Wednesday @ 9am “2016 Romance Reader Events”

  • Do you suffer from depression? If so, do you have any advice or comments youLet's Chat Graphic would like to share?
  • Do you love someone who is suffering from depression? If so, do you have any advice or comments you would like to share?
  • Do you know of any other organizations, groups, forums, apps, etc… that exists for depression?


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What is Booktrack?

Have You Heard About BookTrack

There are two types of readers.

  1. Those that need silence while reading.
  2. Those that need music to drown out distractions in order to read.

Which one are you?

I prefer silence while reading.

Listening to music and reading a book at the same time never even occurred to me. Sure, I use music while I write but I never thought to use it to help concentrate.

The idea of reading a book while listening to a tailor made soundtrack for said book sounds intriguing.

It’s almost like watching a movie without the disappointment of bad casting.

Booktrack is a platform for e-books that does just that. They embed multimedia such as music, sound effects and ambient sounds within the e-book so that it has it’s own soundtrack as you read along.

There are over 20 categories listed in the Bookstore:

  1. Adventure
  2. Biography/Memoir
  3. Crime
  4. Drama
  5. Fan Fiction/Pop Fiction
  6. Fantasy
  7. Historical/Period
  8. Holiday
  9. Horror
  10. Humor & Comedy
  11. Mystery/Thriller
  12. Non-Fiction
  13. Other
  14. Religious/Spiritual
  15. Romance
  16. Scary Stories
  17. Science Fiction
  18. Sports
  19. Young Adult/Teen
  20. Young Readers

The Romance section alone has 30 pages of e-books to choose from and you can read short stories or full length novels.

The prices range from Free to $13.00 and up.

E-books that cost money offer a free sample so that you can decide if you really are interested or not before buying it.

There aren’t just stories to read on BookTrack. You can choose from blog posts set to soundtracks, Education material, essays, plays/screenplays, poetry, and school paper/reports.

Once you’ve selected a Booktrack e-book you can read it on your computer, tablet, or smartphone. Here is the link to download the free app on Google Play Store.

It’s recommended that you listen to the Booktrack e-book with your headphones for optimum sound quality and I agree. It sounds flat or cartoonish on my computer speakers.

So far the only downside I can see is that it will take a few pages to figure out your reading speed. On the internet you can manually speed up the soundtrack, slow it down or pause it so that it doesn’t speed ahead of you when something calls your attention away.

On the app you can do the same things, however, on the far right side there is a see- through arrow that shows you what line in the text the soundtrack is currently on which I find incredibly helpful.

On both the internet and app you can follow your favorite authors or BookTrack creators and will even be alerted when they publish a new BookTrack. You can also rate and comment on each book along with sharing what book you are reading by posting on social media sites.

To all my writer/author friends:

Did you know that BookTrack isn’t just for readers? 

You, as a writer/author, can create your own BookTrack for any piece of work you wrote as long as you own the rights to it by using BookTrack Studio.

If you want to learn more about creating a BookTrack check out:

All in all, it seems to be a fun way to read an e-book.

I’m definitely going to give it a shot.

How about you?

Stay Tuned

Friday @ 9am ” Depression and What It’s Like For Those Who Love You”

Monday9am “2016 Competitions, Conferences & Conventions for Writers”

  • What kind of reader are you? All silence or background noise for concentration?
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  • Have you used BookTrack before? If so, what is your opinion of it?
  • What would be the ideal type of soundtrack for a book? One with only instrumental music in the background or one that also included the ambient sounds mentioned in the book (like a door slamming, walking, birds chirping, etc…)
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The How and Why of Book Playlists

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Isolated open book

I don’t know about you, but when it comes to my favorite authors and the stories they have written, I am up for anything that tells me more about who the characters and stories are to the writer.

As a fan, I want to know more than what is written between the pages of the book.

One of the best ways to do this is by sharing the playlist of songs you used to inspire your writing.

Playlists for  books are not something new.

We as writers have been using this method for many years to help us write.

We as fans have been using this method to save songs that remind us of our favorite books and characters. That way we can immerse ourselves into the book even farther.


How does one even go about making a book playlist?

If you’re new to this form of inspiration you need to:

  1. Take time to decide if lyrical music or instrumental music is what inspires you. Maybe it will be a mixture of both. The best way to find out is by listening to both types while brainstorming for your book.
    • Start by checking out your own person music library.
    • If you cant find anything in your personal collection, turn to sites like iHeartRadio or Pandora and look for a station that plays more of what you are looking for with:
      • Certain Artists
      • Certain Tracks
      • Certain Genres
    • If you don’t have a specific type of artist or song in mind but are looking for ones that speak to a certain mood try YouTube. Type in a phrase that depicts what you are looking for and browse the different playlists various youtubers have created. You can try phrases like:
  2. Once you’ve decided what kind of music inspires you, write down, save, or by the songs that speak specifically to certain characters, settings, or scenes you are writing about and listen to them while you brainstorm and write.

How does one make a playlist worthy enough to share with fans?

Some authors just share a list of the specific songs they listened to while writing. If this is the method you choose to go with then all you have to do is list the songs that inspired you during the writing process on either your website, blog, or social media.

Other authors like to be more in depth by making a playlist of songs that speaks about the characters, the settings and the scenes in the book. Almost like a film score/soundtrack.

I can tell you from a fan’s standpoint, the more in depth the playlist the more the fan will enjoy it.

How does one make an in-depth book playlist?

Step 1: Make a list of all the important characters in the book and find a song that represents each one.

  • Example: The Heroine, The Hero,  The Antagonist, The Sidekick, etc…

Step 2: Make a list of all the places, settings and events in the book and find a song that represents each one.

  • Example: A song that represents the state the book takes place in, or the feeling of the book, or a specific event like a festival, etc…

Step 3: Make a list of all the important scenes in the book and find songs that speak to the feeling of each.

  • Example: Find a song that speaks to the End of the Beginning Scene, The Re-commitment Scene, the Crisis scene, the Climax scene and the Resolution scene.

Step 4: Find songs that match the vibe of all your other scenes.

  • Example: Sweet songs for sweet scenes, Scary songs for suspensful scenes, Sexy songs for sex scenes.

Step 5: If there are any songs mentioned in the book, write them down, make a note of what chapter they were mentioned in and find the song to add to the playlist.

Step 6: Add the songs on a musical sharing site like the ones listed below and then share it. Some musical sharing sites/apps are:

Ok. You can stop here and put all these songs haphazardly on a list and show it to your fans. They will love it.


You can go a step further and put them in an order where its like you are going through a musical journey of the actual book. Where the fans could listen to it while reading the book or they can listen to it alone and experience the book all over again.

How can you accomplish this?

You can easily make a “soundtrack” of your book by:

  • Listing all the chapters of the books.
  • Taking the information you used to make a detailed playlist and insert the songs into the chapters they happen in.
  • Then listing the songs in the same order the chapters appear in your book.

Example of a Romance Book List:

♥ The 1st song on the list could be a song that speaks to the general feel of the book or demonstrate the feeling of the opening scene

♥The 2nd song could musically describe the main character (usually the heroine).

♥The 3rd song could represent the place where the story takes place.

♥The 4th song could represent the cute meet.

♥The 5th song could represent the hero.

and so on and so forth…

If book playlists are an entirely new concept to you, take the time to check out what other authors and fans have created to get a general idea.

The Unofficial Addiction Book Fan Club – Books Playlists

List of Book Playlists on 8Tracks

#Book Playlist on Tumblr

“Book Playlist” or The Playlist Book Tag on YouTube

Stay Tuned

Wednesday @ 9am “What is BookTrack?”

Friday @ 9am “Depression and What It’s Like For Those Who Love You”


  • Do you use music to help you write? If so what kind?
  • Do you have a playlist ready to share with your fans?
  • Have you, as a fan, ever listened to a playlist an author has shared?
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Join The Club: Facebook Groups for Plus Size & Body Confidence

41 Facebook Groups for Plus Size & Body Confidence

Deciding to no longer hate your body, to lift your self confidence and appreciate who and what you look like now is the best decision you could ever make.

However, making that decision and actually following through is one of the hardest things you will ever do.

It’s incredibly difficult to change the way you think about yourself and how other peoples perception of you affects your emotional state.

There will be days where it’s easy and you feel on top of the world.

There will be days where every other thought is something negative.

  • I hate myself
  • I look horrible. How can anyone be attracted to me.
  • I’m worthless
  • I’ll never accomplish anything in life

You get the picture.

It’s on days like these where a support system, no matter the size, is invaluable.

There are many places you can go to find support:

  • Your friends or family
  • Local support groups in your community
  • Internet community/forum groups.

You can also find support groups on social media.

For instance, there are a ton on Facebook. Listed below are 41 groups that I have found where you can go to safely talk about what being plus size means to you, your good and bad experiences, to hear the experience of others, to discuss topics related to your size, to learn about business that cater specifically to plus size people, etc…

Take your time checking out the groups listed to see if there is one just right for you. If you don’t find one, don’t give up. There is one out there for you.

  1. #PlusSizeScope with 238 members
  2. 30+, Fat & Fabulous with 221 members
  3. Anything + with 953 members
  4. Baddest Curvy Natives with 348 members
  5. Body Positive with 741 members
  6. Body Positive Athletes with 644 members
  7. Confessions of a Curvy Girl with 3,155 members
  8. Curvy Figures with 6,360 members
  9. Curvy Girl Guide: Curvy Girl The Community with 5,003 members
  10. Curvy Girls Social Fun and Chat with 762 members
  11. Fat & Weight Science with 281 members
  12. Fat Acceptance Cloud with 414 members
  13. Fat Babes Gettin It! with 73 members
  14. Fat Forward with 417 members
  15. Fat Lib with 368 members
  16. Fat-Positive Fitness & Wellness with 467 members
  17. Fat Studies with 1,504 members
  18. Fatlandia with 871 members
  19. FatSew with 315 members
  20. Flying While Fat with 2,303 members
  21. For Fats Sake with 5,562 members
  22. For the Love of Self, Joy and Success with 3,107 members
  23. Hello, Beautiful with 5,243 members
  24. Inked and Curvy Girls with 1,665 members
  25. Journey to Self Love Challenge with 11,039 members
  26. Learn to Love Yourself with 1,071 members
  27. Living Life Plus Size with 3,959 members
  28. My Self Image: a social experiment with 840 members
  29. Plus Confidence in You Group with 1,155 members
  30. Plus Size Acting Network with 225 members
  31. Plus Size and Proud with 19,101 members
  32. Plus Size- Bloggers and Youtubers with 101 members
  33. Plus Size Business to Business Network with 875 members
  34. Plus Size Net-Workers with 465 members
  35. Plus Size Pregnant Moms & After with 1,394 members
  36. Promoting Body Confidence for Women with 329 members
  37. Rad Fatties with 887 members
  38. Self Love Tribe with 202 members
  39. The Curvy Revolution with 12,609 members
  40. TooFat Uncensored with 308 members
  41. Women’s Self Love Project with 726 members

*The member counts are subject to change at any time due to new members arriving and old ones leaving.

Stay Tuned

Monday @9am “The How and Why of Book Playlists”

Wednesday @ 9am “What is Booktrack?”

  • Have you made the decision to love who you are today? How has it been going for you?
  • Do you belong to a Facebook Group or any other type of support group for this?
  • What has been your most positive or negative experience with Body Confidence, Body Positivity and/or Self Love?
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Join The Club: Facebook Groups for Romance Readers

53 Facebook Groups for Romance Readers

Have you ever wished you could find a group of people who loved the kind of romance books you do? Someone to talk with and share your favorite romance reads or learn about new ones?

For some, there are book clubs where you are obligated to read a specific book each month, sit in a room together and listen to people discuss what they got from said book.  But if you’re the type of person who doesn’t enjoy required reading or socializing in public then this is not an option for you.

Fear not, there is an alternative; Facebook Groups.

If you are on Facebook, finding a romance community that fits your reading tastes is as easy as using the search feature and clicking “join” on the group page. The hard part is knowing how to word your search so that Facebook brings up relevant group pages.

Guess what, I’ve done the work for you. (You’re Welcome)

Below are 53 Facebook Groups that are dedicated to Romance readers.

I tried to find a group for as many romance genres as possible. Still, this is not all of the romance groups on Facebook. Browse through the list to see if there is one just right for you and then take some time to do a search on your own to see if there are more that tickle your fancy.

For my romance writer’s out there Facebook groups can be an invaluable tool. NOT to showcase or promote your book but to get in touch with your reader base. To really listen and learn what they want out of a romance book. The groups are also a great place to ask readers questions like I did in “What Do Romance Readers Really Want? “.

Now, without further ado, here are just a few Romance Reader Facebook Groups offered on Facebook.

  1. Adult/Erotic Fiction Publicity and Book Club with 8,266 members
  2. African American Romance Book Club with 466 members
  3. All That Romance with 2,127 members
  4. Audio Books – Erotic & Romance with 941 members
  5. BBW Love: Big, Beautiful and Proud Romance with 128 members
  6. BBW Sweet Romance with 1,717 members
  7. BDSM and Romance Books with 2,282 members
  8. Book Bench for Romance Lovers with 1,961 members
  9. Christian Romance with 57 members
  10. Coastal Romance with 484 members
  11. Curvy Girl Romance with 5,338 members
  12. Dark Erotica/Romance Discussion with 697 members
  13. Erotic-Romance Book Group with 2,769 members
  14. Erotic Readers and Authors with 8,315 members
  15. Fans of All Male Romance Books with 4,355 members
  16. Fans of F/F Romance with 293 members
  17. Gay Romance Literature Lovers with 1,056 members
  18. Historical Romance Addicts with 3,006 members
  19. Horror and Gothic Romance Literature with 112 members
  20. Interracial Multicultural Romance Fanclub with 922 members
  21. Interracial Romance Readers with 1,700 members
  22. M/M Romance with 8,630 members
  23. Medieval Romance Novels with 442 members
  24. MilBrat Romance with 278 members
  25. Military and Suspense Romance Reads with 512 members
  26. New Adult Romance Books with 1,830 members
  27. Old School Romance Book Club with 3,205 members
  28. Outrageous Heroes of Romance with 468 members
  29. Paranormal Romance & Urban Fantasy Fanclub with 3,948 members
  30. Paranormal Romance Lovers with 832 members
  31. Pen and Kink with 4,546 members
  32. Pure Sexual Romance with 3,160 members
  33. Romance Novel Junkies with 11,470 members
  34. Romance Novels & Romantic Fiction Readers and Writers with 3,244 members
  35. Romance Novels Fan Club with 1,520 members
  36. Romance Novels ROCK with 4,357 members
  37. Romance Readers with 13,094 members
  38. Romance Readers and Writers with 1,227 members
  39. Romance Readers Retreat with 963 members
  40. Romance & Suspense with 111 members
  41. Romance & Thrillers Group with 13,239 members
  42. RomCon Contemporary Romance with 290 members
  43. Scottish Historical Romance with 1,628 members
  44. Sports Romance Readers with 24 members
  45. Sweet/Clean Romance Group with 330 members
  46. Sweet Hot Curves: For Romance Readers with 316 members
  47. The Kinkery Book Club with 1,600 members
  48. The SciFi Romance Group with 575 members
  49.  The Smut BookClub with 376 members
  50. Time Travel Romance and Fiction with 789 members
  51. Western Romance Cafe` with 1,266 members
  52. Women Who Love Romance Novels with 5,106 members
  53. Zombie Romance with 208 members

*The member counts are subject to change at any time due to new members arriving and old ones leaving.

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44 Publishers Seeking Romance

44 Publishers Seeking Romance

Breaking out into the romance writing scene can be intimidating to say the least.

You don’t just write a great love story, you also need to:

  • Decide whether you are going to self publish or try the traditional route.
  • If you choose the traditional route you need to figure out if you are going to get a literary agent to represent you.
  • If you choose to forgo the literary agent and look for publishers on your own then you find yourself scouring the internet for any decent publisher who accepts unsolicited and unagented work. That’s like looking for a needle in a gigantic haystack. 

Listed below are 44 publishers currently seeking/accepting unsolicited and unagented romance novels, short stories, novellas and anthologies.

Before submitting your manuscript, take the time to do the following:

∗ Click on each Publisher to be sent to their submissions and guidelines page. 

  1. Ankara Press 
    • Genre/Sub-genre: Non-traditional romances set in urban environments in African cities.
    • Word Count: 35,000-45,000
  2. Avon Romance – Avon Impulse 
    • Genre/Sub-genre: Romantic Suspense, Super sexy contemporaries, trilogies and beyond and historical romances with a hook.
    • Word Count: Not Specified
  3. Black Lyon Publishing
    • Genre/Sub-genre: Romantic Adventure, Contemporary Romance, Paranormal Romance, Historical Romance and Inspirational Romance
    • Word Count: Novels: 45,000-90,000 Novellas 20,000-40,000
  4. Black Opal Books
    • Genre/Sub-genre: All romance sub-genres along with YA, Women’s Fiction, Chick Lit, Historicals, Mysteries & Thrillers.
    • Word Count: Novel 45,000 & up Novellas 15,000-45,000
  5. Blushing Books Publishing
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: All the sub-genres of Historical, Contemporary, Fantasy/Sci-Fi & Erotic
    • Word Count: Novels 25,000 & up Novellas 16,000 & up
  6. Bold Strokes Books
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: LGBT fiction geared toward Romance and YA
    • Word Count: Not Specified
  7. Books To Go Now
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: All romance sub-genres along with Mystery/Suspense, New Adult and Anthologies
    • Word Count: Not Specified
  8. Carina Press
    • Genre/Sub-Genre:
    • Word Count:
  9. Changeling Press
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: All romance sub-genres (except Inspirational romance)
    • Word Count: 35,000 & up
  10. Crimson Romance
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: Contemporary, Romantic Suspense, Paranormal, Historical, “Spicy” Romance and LGBT
    • Word Count: Novels 55,000-90,000 Novellas 2,000-50,000
  11. Diversion Books
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: Romance (contemporary and historical), New Adult, Thrillers, Mysteries, Science Fiction, Fantasy, Women’s Fiction & YA
    • Word Count: Not Specified
  12. DreamSpinner Press
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: Gay Male Romances in all sub-genres.
    • Word Count: Novels 60,000 & up Novellas 15,000-59,999
  13. Elloras Cave
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: Adult Romance, Erotica, Erotica for Men, Erotica for Women, Traditional Romance, Non Fiction. Comedy, Thriller/Horror, New Adult & Sci-Fi/Alternate Reality
    • Word Count: Novels 30,000- and up Novellas 12,000-30,000
  14. Entangled In Romance
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: All romance sub-genres including YA
    • Word Count: Novels 20,000-120,000
  15. Evernight Publishing
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: All sub-genres of romance and Anthologies
    • Word Count: 5,000 – 100,000
  16. Extasybooks
    • Genre/Sub-Genre:  romance, sensual romance, YA, BDSM, GLBT, interracial, African/American, Science Fiction, Gay, Lesbian, and any and all combinations thereof.
    • Word Count: Novels 50,000 & up Novellas 20,000 & up
  17. Fiery Seas Publishing
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: Romance – Contemporary, Fantasy, Sci-fi, Paranormal, YA, Western, Mystery/Suspense, Historical
    • Word Count: Novels 60,000 & up Novellas 35,000-60,000
  18. Harlequin
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: All sub-genres of romance.
    • Word Count: 50,000 – 100,000
  19. House of Erotica
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: All sub-genres of Erotica
    • Word Count: Over 10,000 & up
  20. ImaJinn Books
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: All sub-genres of romance.
    • Word Count: 50,000 – 90,000
  21. InkSpell
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: Contemporary Romance in magic, paranormal, sci-fi, Teen and YA
    • Word Count: Not Specified
  22. Kensington Publishing
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: traditional cozy mysteries, thrillers, romantic suspense, historical romance, contemporary romance, women’s contemporary fiction, Amish romances and inspirational romances, historical fiction, paranormal romance, gay fiction, cozy and historical mysteries, dark suspense, as well as short contemporaries with Alpha heroes
    • Word Count: 75,000-100,000
  23. Less Than Three Press
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: LGBTQIA (lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans, queer, intersex, and asexual) romance stories in any genre.
    • Word Count: 10,000-60,000
  24. Liquid Silver Books
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: All sub-genres of romance.
    • Word Count: Not Specified
  25. Loose-ID
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: All sub-genres of romance
    • Word Count: 20,000-120,000
  26. Melange Satin Romance
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: Sweet Romance, Sensual Romance and Erotic
    • Word Count: 20,000-85,000
  27. MLR Press
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: Gay Fiction and Erotic Romance
    • Word Count: 10,000-40,000
  28. Muse It Up Publishing
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: Romance and all of it’s sub-genres, Paranormal/Fantasy, Myster/Suspense/Thriller, YA, Horror & Dark Fiction, Sci-Fi
    • Word Count: Novels Not Specified Novellas 15,000-25,000
  29. Ravenous Romance 
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: Erotic Romance
    • Word Count: Novels 50,000-60,000 Short Stories 1,500-5,000
  30. Red Sage Publishing
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: All sub-genres of romance and erotica
    • Word Count: 25,000-100,000
  31. Regal Crest
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: Lesbian and Gay works of Fiction and Non Fiction
    • Word Count: Novels 60,000-120,000 Novellas 15,000-59,999
  32. Resplendence Publishing
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: Historical, Paranormal, Contemporary, Romantic Suspense and Erotic Romance.
    • Word Count: Novels 61,000-90,000 Novellas 19,000-30,000
  33. Riptide Publishing
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: LGBTQ Romance
    • Word Count: 15,000-115,000
  34. Siren Book Strand
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: All sub-genres of romcance
    • Word Count: 20,000 and up
  35. SoulMate Publishing
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: Romance -Action/Adventure, Chick Lit, Contemporary, Erotica, Fantasy, Historical, Inspirational, New Adult, Paranormal, Sci-Fi/Futuristic, Suspense/Thriller, Time Travel, Urban Fantasy, Women’s Fiction, Young adult.
    • Word Count: 50,000-90,000
  36. Sourcebooks
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: All sub-genres of romance
    • Word Count: 90,000-120,000
  37. Steam Romance
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: All sub-genres in romance
    • Word Count: Novels 50,000-100,000 Short Stories 15,000-40,000
  38. SYTYCW So You Think You Can Write
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: Special Calls for submission. Check current contest for required genre
    • Word Count: Special Calls for submission. Check current contest for required genre
  39. The Wild Rose Press
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: Contemporary Romance, Romantic Suspense, Romantic Contemporary Western, Sweet Romance, Dark Paranormal Romance, Fantasy Romance, Erotic Romance, Erotica, Historical Romance, Women’s Fiction, Mystery/Thriller.
    • Word Count: 7,500-100,000
  40. Tirgearr Publishing
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: Commerical adult genre fiction- Thriller, Romance, Sci-Fi, Mystery, Fantasy, etc
    • Word Count: Novels 50,000-95,000 Novellas 20,000-50,000
  41. Torquere Press
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: All LGBT romance sub-genres
    • Word Count: Novels 45,000 & up Novellas 20,000-45,000
  42. Totally Entwined
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: Erotic Romance – Action/Adventure, Angels and Demons, Bondage/BDSM, Crime/Mystery, Comedy/Humour, Contemporary, Cowboy/Western, Fantasy/Fairytales, Futuristic/Sci-fi, Gods/Goddesses, Historical, Horror, Men in Uniform, Rubenesque, Ménage-à-trois, Multicultural, Older Woman/Younger Man, Paranormal, Timetravel, Thriller, Suspense, Shapeshifters, Morphers, Vampires, Werewolves.
    • Word Count: 10,000-100,000+
  43. Tule Publishing
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: Contemporary Romance and all of its sub genres including Historical romance, paranormal romance, erotica/erotic romance, clean sweet romances and light inspirational romances.
    • Word Count: Novels 45,000-90,000 Novellas 30,000-40,000
  44. Wayward Ink Publishing
    • Genre/Sub-Genre: LGBT Romances
    • Word Count: Novels 60,000 & up Novellas 15,000-29,999


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  • What are your plans for your finished manuscript? Will you go the Indie or Traditional route?
  • Have you had any experience with any of the publishers listed above?
  • Do you know of any publishers looking for Romance that are not listed in this article?


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10 Body Positive Audio Books to Drown Out Your Inner Critic

Listed below are 10 plus size, body confidence, and self compasion audio books that I currently have on my to-be-read list.

If you’d like a little help in learning to love yourself check them out with me.

If you’ve already had the pleasure of reading/listening to these let me know what you thought of it.

Things No One Will Tell Fat Girls: A Handbook for Unapologetic Living 

by Jes Baker

Big Girl: How I Gave Up Dieting and Got a Life 

by Kelsey Miller


Fat Girl Walking: Sex, Food, Love and Being Comfortable in Your Skin… Every Inch of It

By Brittany Gibbons and Narrated by Lauren Fortgang

Hot & Heavy: Fierce Fat Girls on Life, Love & Fashion

By Virgie Tovar and  Narrated by Joy Nash

Two Whole Cakes: How to Stop Dieting and Learn to Love Your Body

by Lesley Kinzel and narrated by Heather Henderson

Intuitive Eating: A Revolutionary Program That Works

by Evelyn Tribole and Elyse Resch

and Narrated by Pam Ward

Love Your Body: The Imperfect Girl’s Guide to Positive Body Image

By Elizabeth Walling and Narrated by Erin Fossa

The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You’re Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are

By Brene Brown and Narrated by Lauren Fortgang

Self Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself

By Kristin Neff and Narrated by Xe Sands

Body of Truth: How Science, History and Culture Drive Our Obsession with Weight and What We Can Do About It

by Harriet Brown and Narrated by Karen Saltus

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  • Have you read or listened to any of the audio books listed above?
  • Do you have any suggestions of audio books on the same topic?
  • If you listen to audio books do you normally listen to fiction, non fiction, self help…?
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The Best Romance Audio Books

The Best Romance Audio Books

The best audiobook I ever listened to happened to be my first and only (to date) romance audiobook.

Dreamfever by Karen Marie Moning

(Book #4 in the Fever Series)

Narrated by Natalie Ross and Phil Gigante

I had just finished reading Faefever and was dying to know what happened next. Luckily, I was new to the series and the next book was already out.

Unluckily, I was snowed in and couldn’t get access to a bookstore or library (this was before I had a Kindle).

So, in a panic, I searched the iTunes store to see if I could get the audio version. Low and behold it was there waiting for me as long as I was willing to shell out over $20.00!

That’s almost the same price as a brand new hardcover! I’m not even a big fan of audiobooks but I’m even less of a fan of paying for something “virtual” when I can have the real thing for the same price.

I stared at my computer trying to talk myself out of purchasing it but in the end my need to know what happened next won out. And I’m glad it did.

I purchased the audiobook with my eyes closed…literally. I felt so bad shelling out all that money for it that I couldn’t watch as I clicked buy. I had no idea what I was getting, just that it was the next book in this new series I was madly in love with.

The audiobook starts and the lady narrating it was good. She had a nice southern accent and a nice Irish accent which kept the book from being monotonous or hoky. Until now, my experience with audiobooks has been that one narrator speaks through the entire story. Sometimes using different accents and pitches to mimic the different characters and sometimes not. This wasn’t the case with Dreamfever.

I was just getting used to hearing the characters I’ve been reading about for 3 books being vocalized when all of a sudden a low timbered male voice glides through my headphones, into my ears, traveling down my spine leaving shivers in it’s wake.

Ok, that might be a tad over dramatic but my eyes did bug out and I did snatch the headphones off my ears for a brief second.

I couldn’t believe it. I was expecting to hear the same lady narrate every character in the story. I had no idea there were even audiobooks that had more then one narrator. It was amazing the difference it made for me. I was glued to my iPod. I giggled every time a male character popped onto the scene. It was the best audiobook experience I ever had!

Now, you’re probably thinking that after that wonderful experience I must have finished the rest of the series by way of audiobooks. I did not. I still prefer to hold the book in my hand and read the words sprawled on the pages before me. Besides, at that time my kids were little and having headphones over my ears just wasn’t practical.

Fast forward how ever many years, my kids are older and less prone to bodily harm when I’m not in ear shot and I’m ready to dive into the world of romance audiobooks again. However, I don’t want just some simple audiobook with one narrator for all the characters. Dreamfever spoiled me. I want multiple narrators and sounds effects and musical scores!

Basically, I want the movie without the bad casting. I know, I know, wishful thinking…

So, I start browsing the romance audiobook section in Audible and I realize something…. I still don’t want to pay those high prices! But if I was going to spend that kind of money  i wanted to make sure the audiobook was worth it. But how would I know what audiobooks were worth the price?

Research! I searched through the vast array of websites, forums and reviews to find the romance audiobooks everyone was gushing over. Want to know what I found??

A confusing mess!

Apparently, I struck gold when I stumbled upon DreamFever in audio form. The way Natalie Ross and Phil Gigante narrated the story was not typical at the time.

From what I gather, romance audio books have only recently started having dual narrators. However, those dual narrators aren’t always a man and a woman and even when it is (and this is the really confusing part) there are times when they voice the same characters! So you can have one character being voiced in two different ways by two different narrators in the same audiobook. WHAT?! How does that make sense??

There is no way my brain will allow me to listen to a character being voiced differently in the same audiobook. I already have a hard enough time listening to a well loved character being voiced in a way that doesn’t sound like the voice I imagined in my head.

Then there is the debate on whether you prefer a female narrator or a male one. Honestly, I’ve never had an audiobook where the only narrator was male. DreamFever was the first time I had ever heard a male narrator at all. I honestly can’t imagine hearing a man voice a female character and not want to laugh. For some reason, the sound of a female pretending to have a male voice is easier for me to hear.

Behold, this is what I found:


This one graphic mentioned the majority of the romance audiobooks i found being recommended on numerous websites, forums and reviews. I figured I could list all the titles mentioned individually or I could just share this pretty graphic with links to this great website where more are listed and talked about in great detail.

Check out AudioGals.Net for a whole website of reviews and lists regarding romance audiobooks.

For detailed lists with links to the audiobooks check out:

AudioGals The Classics

  • Contemporary
  • Historical
  • Paranormal
  • Romantic Suspense
  • Fantasy

AudioGals Paranormal Romance

  • Romance Driven
  • Urban Fantasy
  • Light/Humorous
  • Paranormal Elements
  • Stand Alone

AudioGals Historical

  • Hall of Fame
  • Not Your Usual Romance
  • American
  • European
  • The Other Categories


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  • Did your favorite romance audiobook make AudioGirls list? 
  • Have you experience an audiobook with multiple narrators? What is your opinion of them?
  • What type of audiobook do you prefer? One narrator vs multiple? Being read to vs listening to a performance?


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